2011年11月30日
suppressing mental state
Read to understand a kid signal for suppressing mental state
The kid expresses the way of loving, anger, saddness, and happiness sometimes not quite direct, so not easy is comprehended by the parent, understood following these kidses mental suppress the signal in time, you then can betterly help a kid to dissolve heart in of suppress.
1, the brush-off have a meal
The expert reminds that the parent wants to notice the kid's food.If be disgusted with appearing a food phenomenon, may be that the kid's emotion is wrong, the parent should hard treat.If neglect to this, probably develop into the food stanza Lyu mess.As parents, never force a kid to have a meal, but should usually change the category of meal at this time, encourage a kid to cook a meal for you, prepare the meal that his love eats for you.If he is in the bad tendency of food keep on long time very occasionally the weight ease a lot, should go for a doctor in time.
2, lying and beguilement
The about 5 years old pre-schooler sometimes tells a lie, but they usually really don't know the result of their behavior.A little bit bigger of the kid will also tell a lie while canning already peg out a true or false circumstance, this is majority of because they are subjected to a lot of pressures.If you of the kid hear your boasting you to park the car don't pay, or tell a falsehood with avert from a working conference, your wanting careful you is setting up bad model.Had better speak the importance of the honesty and the result of the lying to the kid to listen to.If the lying has already become one of his habit, you should take he saw a mental doctor.
If the kid isn't good at expressing his/her own emotion, the parents need patience to guide, should also give time make it slowly speak an endocentric feeling, the parents' concern and support are very important this time.For don't easily accept kid the parents of negative emotion, need to make an improvement in the aspects of approving a kid emotion.Sometimes the kid expresses toward the parents upset, for seeking an object drains, the parents need if the heed gave the kid too many otiose allocutions, or came from the blame of sons and daughters' unexpected happening.
3, over- worried
The kid watches television after the inside hurricane calamitous report way but fears that the hurricane is the matter in the reason.Equally, the student is frightened close by of examination also normal.But if they fear all people and matter not to be getting more normal, they more feel weak don't help, frightened of the thing is more many.
4, offensive behavior
Everybody knows Yi ah learn language of the kid will also become angry, but these behavior is always peculiar.Speech limited child, easing the only way of pressure is the playmate who bite, incenses or humiliates him.Result in although the reason of this kind of behavior fastens with not irrelevant the violent scene of television,the kid's exasperation may even come from a mood and suppress, this is to say, you should be as far as possible a little bit less ground of and tells him to do what and how do, otherwise the pressure that can increase him, because the kid needs to is played carefree and is the matter that oneself wants and does.
The kid expresses the way of loving, anger, saddness, and happiness sometimes not quite direct, so not easy is comprehended by the parent, understood following these kidses mental suppress the signal in time, you then can betterly help a kid to dissolve heart in of suppress.
1, the brush-off have a meal
The expert reminds that the parent wants to notice the kid's food.If be disgusted with appearing a food phenomenon, may be that the kid's emotion is wrong, the parent should hard treat.If neglect to this, probably develop into the food stanza Lyu mess.As parents, never force a kid to have a meal, but should usually change the category of meal at this time, encourage a kid to cook a meal for you, prepare the meal that his love eats for you.If he is in the bad tendency of food keep on long time very occasionally the weight ease a lot, should go for a doctor in time.
2, lying and beguilement
The about 5 years old pre-schooler sometimes tells a lie, but they usually really don't know the result of their behavior.A little bit bigger of the kid will also tell a lie while canning already peg out a true or false circumstance, this is majority of because they are subjected to a lot of pressures.If you of the kid hear your boasting you to park the car don't pay, or tell a falsehood with avert from a working conference, your wanting careful you is setting up bad model.Had better speak the importance of the honesty and the result of the lying to the kid to listen to.If the lying has already become one of his habit, you should take he saw a mental doctor.
If the kid isn't good at expressing his/her own emotion, the parents need patience to guide, should also give time make it slowly speak an endocentric feeling, the parents' concern and support are very important this time.For don't easily accept kid the parents of negative emotion, need to make an improvement in the aspects of approving a kid emotion.Sometimes the kid expresses toward the parents upset, for seeking an object drains, the parents need if the heed gave the kid too many otiose allocutions, or came from the blame of sons and daughters' unexpected happening.
3, over- worried
The kid watches television after the inside hurricane calamitous report way but fears that the hurricane is the matter in the reason.Equally, the student is frightened close by of examination also normal.But if they fear all people and matter not to be getting more normal, they more feel weak don't help, frightened of the thing is more many.
4, offensive behavior
Everybody knows Yi ah learn language of the kid will also become angry, but these behavior is always peculiar.Speech limited child, easing the only way of pressure is the playmate who bite, incenses or humiliates him.Result in although the reason of this kind of behavior fastens with not irrelevant the violent scene of television,the kid's exasperation may even come from a mood and suppress, this is to say, you should be as far as possible a little bit less ground of and tells him to do what and how do, otherwise the pressure that can increase him, because the kid needs to is played carefree and is the matter that oneself wants and does.
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