2011年06月30日

At time of death

At time of death the patient regrets most of 5 matters
1.My hope at the beginning I am courageous to lead I true just going to of life, not the other people hope I lead of life.comfortable ballet shoes

This is in all businesses of penitence most often heard.

There is a theories on the psychology, compare it those we once did of matter, what people regretted is usually those matters that didn't do.So when people goes toward back to see in the life end, usually discover that a lot of dreams shoulded come true, but don't carry out.You of the companion of the feelings, yous of the work, yous of life style, yous, in fact we how much person what to live is the life that the other people hope that you lead, not oneself true just going to of life-again may, always you the other people hope you lead of the life regard as is that you want of life.

When your disease ties up a body, just discover oneself in fact should and can let go of a lot of worries, pursue the life that you want, seem to be already a little bit late.

2.I hope at the beginning I didn't spend so many energies on the work.

Ware says that these is the words that each male patient whom she once looked after wills say.Because work, they missed to pay attention to the fun that the kid grows up and missed a lover warmth of keep company with, this is their deepest penitence with sorry and ashamed.In fact come to say to the occupation female in nowadays, this will also become a problem.

If you of the life become in brief some, you probably will discover that you is doing a lot of businesses that you think that your needing do in fact doesn't need you do.Teng the space that those matters have, probably you will lead a little bit more happily.worked properly

3.I hope at the beginning my ability is courageous to express my feeling.

Too many people suppress their his/her own feeling and viewpoint, just don't produce an antinomy with other people for the sake of"world peace".Gradually they became the generation of the doctrine of the mean, can not become they whom they can become.Have a lot of diseases and suppress exasperation to have relation with negative emotion over a long period of time in fact.

Probably be you speak without fear, you will give offense to some persons.But possibility from now on because you of to the point, you don't beat don't acquaint with;Again or turn over a face, at the right moment make you get away from this kind of need you suppress you's feeling then can maintain of tiring relation.No matter which result, you are a winner, be not?-Not excessive, speak without fear to still have bottom line.

4.I hope at the beginning I can keep in touch with friend.

Old friend of good, we always wanted their wes to occupy of time would thought of.

How much person neglected a friend to neglect ever shining friendship because of the he or she busy life.Many people at time of death the front finally let go of money and let go of power, but can not let go the emotion in the heart and concern about.The friend is also good, lover let it be, in fact life the day finally inside, they are that we remember most deeply.

5.I hope at the beginning I can make I live a little bit happy.

Probably have a little out of the blue, but this also fore 5 in.Many people until the life finally just discovers, "the happiness is a choice".Human body

They at they decided habit and Be getting longer too much in the life style, become accustomed to dissimulation, become accustomed to camouflage, become accustomed to pile up smiling face before person.Be like the song in May sky, "you aren't real happiness, you of smile just you give of protective coloration".They think to is a life to make them not happy, in fact is that they let by themselves their they the happiness was not.

BE only at time of death of time would discover, other people how see you and have what relate to?Silly also good, strange can sincerely smile let it be, compare what all worth.



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