2011年04月29日
Cherish own men
I discover a problem, once a lot of women lift "understanding wife and loving mother", will thought of that kind of the household chores lives a stem and look after husband be like a kid, but oneself is tired yellow the woman of face.I feel that this kind of viewpoint is really a kind of mistake area, the woman is in the marriage, in fact as long as you attain a consideration and understanding husband, many shares worry with husband, would like to make him tell you his viewpoint, so, you are a little bit lazy, the husband still will hold you in hand in of.So say, does household chores with it every day tired must die and live, rather think a way to infuse enticing soup for husband tube, much encouragement support him, let him willingly go and charge and break enemy ranks for you just right.
The man , in the traditional thought of China several thousand years, should be "having tears not to flip";Should be the mountain of Gao Da Dun Wei's shore;Should be the shelter of the abyss of time of woman.The man sheds tears to would be weak;The man shrieks with pain and then isn't a man.Hence, the mans have to suppress their his/her own emotion, pain, bitterness, fear, can not speak, speak, then will be despised-drive other people, also drive oneself.
In fact, the man is also a person and also have seven feelings six desires and have already feared worry as well, they are also lasting the mothers in the mind treasures.As a woman, we should learn to make allowance for them.
Want to know:Our cold of time, he is probably also very cold, though the his body is probably more quite a few than us, we seem to should not stare blankly to him, either and strip off the jacket to us to throw on, otherwise blaming him can't love a person;
Want to know:We fear snake and fear the time of rat, he is probably also fearing, why we must shout loudly his name, must see he make track for a dozen they, otherwise blame him weak in character;
Want to know:Our love eats a chicken leg, in the home, the parents also always render up us to the chicken leg;But they probably also love and eat, they are at home, the parents also definitely always render up he eats, so, we why want him, render up us to the chicken leg each time, otherwise blame him selfish, can't love;
Want to know:We are humiliated and discommode, need a warm bosom embrace, demand someone comfort someone is painful;They are also persons, their small of time, also need the mother's warm bosom embrace and comfort, Be getting bigger now, maybe not can be like similar sought a mother in childhood, can we are already his most close persons, why can not forgive their weak and injustice, why can not be subjected to at him harmful of time, lend him a warm bosom to embrace, let him weep aloud?
Want to know:Everybody has different personality and a fondness for, probably our he, naturally like to do household chores, can't earn money to support family;We since chose him, and then compared he will support family to earn money, why don't see he tidies up home tightly to have and makes us able to let go to work hard, but want to blame and scold him have no skill?
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In fact, as a woman, we have been very lucky, the man naturally has the dedication spirit to protect us and work hard for us, we in fact want ～only a little very small encouragement to him, can make him go forward courageously, with no regret.We keep making, woman requests not much, in fact the man request of, probably also just our support and affirmation is just;1,000 words of complaints, arrive however a look in the eyes of gentle and soft encouragement.
The womans never forget, the man is also a person and request him to attain at us what what state of time, learn to want first, it is us to change to make, can we attain that state?In this world to know successful man, compare unexpectedly is minority, the man of overwhelming majority is an all common ordinary man, he cans make the affair of what lies in one's power, enough.
Hope man Jackie Chan of the sisters, know:Can become just of, need not we force;Can not become of and forced him also useless and on the contrary made two people's feelings more and more estranged.
Remember, the ancient dragon once said"woman, can make the man live in the heaven as well as make the man go to hell."As a woman, we are probably weak, but a lot of men's destiny, all probably operate in the our hand-invite a man who cherish wes.
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The man , in the traditional thought of China several thousand years, should be "having tears not to flip";Should be the mountain of Gao Da Dun Wei's shore;Should be the shelter of the abyss of time of woman.The man sheds tears to would be weak;The man shrieks with pain and then isn't a man.Hence, the mans have to suppress their his/her own emotion, pain, bitterness, fear, can not speak, speak, then will be despised-drive other people, also drive oneself.
In fact, the man is also a person and also have seven feelings six desires and have already feared worry as well, they are also lasting the mothers in the mind treasures.As a woman, we should learn to make allowance for them.
Want to know:Our cold of time, he is probably also very cold, though the his body is probably more quite a few than us, we seem to should not stare blankly to him, either and strip off the jacket to us to throw on, otherwise blaming him can't love a person;
Want to know:We fear snake and fear the time of rat, he is probably also fearing, why we must shout loudly his name, must see he make track for a dozen they, otherwise blame him weak in character;
Want to know:Our love eats a chicken leg, in the home, the parents also always render up us to the chicken leg;But they probably also love and eat, they are at home, the parents also definitely always render up he eats, so, we why want him, render up us to the chicken leg each time, otherwise blame him selfish, can't love;
Want to know:We are humiliated and discommode, need a warm bosom embrace, demand someone comfort someone is painful;They are also persons, their small of time, also need the mother's warm bosom embrace and comfort, Be getting bigger now, maybe not can be like similar sought a mother in childhood, can we are already his most close persons, why can not forgive their weak and injustice, why can not be subjected to at him harmful of time, lend him a warm bosom to embrace, let him weep aloud?
Want to know:Everybody has different personality and a fondness for, probably our he, naturally like to do household chores, can't earn money to support family;We since chose him, and then compared he will support family to earn money, why don't see he tidies up home tightly to have and makes us able to let go to work hard, but want to blame and scold him have no skill?
……
In fact, as a woman, we have been very lucky, the man naturally has the dedication spirit to protect us and work hard for us, we in fact want ～only a little very small encouragement to him, can make him go forward courageously, with no regret.We keep making, woman requests not much, in fact the man request of, probably also just our support and affirmation is just;1,000 words of complaints, arrive however a look in the eyes of gentle and soft encouragement.
The womans never forget, the man is also a person and request him to attain at us what what state of time, learn to want first, it is us to change to make, can we attain that state?In this world to know successful man, compare unexpectedly is minority, the man of overwhelming majority is an all common ordinary man, he cans make the affair of what lies in one's power, enough.
Hope man Jackie Chan of the sisters, know:Can become just of, need not we force;Can not become of and forced him also useless and on the contrary made two people's feelings more and more estranged.
Remember, the ancient dragon once said"woman, can make the man live in the heaven as well as make the man go to hell."As a woman, we are probably weak, but a lot of men's destiny, all probably operate in the our hand-invite a man who cherish wes.
Article 《cherish his/her own men 》come from an article house, the redistribution pleases note Web address and author!If you like 《cherish your own men 》, don't forget to recommend to your friend!
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